stuffs happened back in malaysia a few days ago. one of my cousin was admitted into the hospital on saturday or sunday due to malnutrition and dehydration and she went into critical condition at around 3am monday morning. xiao yi called my mum, uncle and da yi as all of us are in singapore and my mum went back to msia first because my uncle cannot leave till he finish a meeting in the afternoon and my da yi had to take care of her grandsons. my mum reached her hometown at 1 plus and my cousin passed away 1 hour later. da jiu mu was pretty much scolded by mum and other relatives for neglecting her own daughter's health and caused this tragedy to take place. later then i know from my mum that her mum had another daughter before but also passed away when she was only 10 months old. my mum said to her that she had caused her 2 daughters to die in her hands and she shouldn't have been so biased towards her sons as all of them are her children and should be treated equally, people who don't know would have thought that she was adopted. my mum they all were crying for her but her own mum didn't shed a single tear for her own daughter.

something interesting and weird happened there. a bat appeared out of nowhere and was flying around the house in msia on tuesday morning. my mum scared them by saying that it's my cousin's soul and, her family freaked out and they closed their bedroom door and windows, not daring to step out of the bedroom since it's not often for a bat to just fly into a house. my mum, xiao yi and uncle were amused by the sight:D then the bat just disappeared just as my mum they all switched on the lights in the kitchen. when it was at night, it appeared again out of nowhere and my cousin's family freaked out again-.- and my mum scared them with the same words 'your daughter is here to look for you again, da sao' my family and i was laughing away while mum was telling us, and it's such a pity that i wasn't able to see the whole thing:D i mean, it's your own family and yet you are still scared of them, tsk. this kind of thing also happened when my grandpa passed away. he came back as a moth, flying around the house.

i hope that she had reunited with her father as my uncle is the only one that treats her as his own daughter when he's still alive. well, her brother told my mum that whenever she quarreled with her mum, she will always said that she will go look for dad, who has already passed away, and her mum will just say 'go lah, go look for your father.' now she is really gone from this world to look for her father._. from 1990 to 2010, 6 of my relatives had already left this world. 4 from my maternal side and 2 from my paternal side. oh well, no use dwelling on the past. just hope that the dead ones are fine in the afterworld. Amen.